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Princess Pyro

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i was talking to a friend of mine last night, and we moved on to the topic of why i am still single. he said that guys are probably just nervous around me coz i'm beautiful (
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) and coz i'm an individual, therefore, i have to make the first move. but i think that i won't make a move on anyone because i am afriad
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. i think it might have something to do with the fact that i am a reseved person, and i could write the book on emotional barriers and defenses and i feel secure with those barriers and defenses. and i'm worried that if i get really close to someone, those barriers won't be there anymore.

is there anyway i can get over this?
 
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Snowbaby

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Originally posted by Princess Pyro@Jul 15 2005, 03:06 PM
but i think that i won't make a move on anyone because i am afriad
BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!


You know what??? What you feel, is exactly what EVERYONE feels!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was single until I turned 23!!!!!!! I was far too shy to "make the first move" and far too shy to let anyone do the same with me. It takes time and getting to know and trust a person. Your time will come
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Snowbaby

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Not you at all missy!!!! This is natural, it's just how everyone feels. Even if people tell you they aren't nervous, I'm a great believer that in the case of "young love" everyone is nervous at the beginning
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You're perfect and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
 

Bubbles

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Originally posted by Snowbaby@Jul 15 2005, 03:24 PM
I was single until I turned 23!!!!!!! I was far too shy to "make the first move" and far too shy to let anyone do the same with me. It takes time and getting to know and trust a person. Your time will come
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But.. now shes not shy and always chats me up and stuff.. she's such a hussy and so wants me
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she cant keep her cyber hands off me.
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alejindo

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Originally posted by Snowbaby@Jul 15 2005, 02:48 PM
Not you at all missy!!!! This is natural, it's just how everyone feels. Even if people tell you they aren't nervous, I'm a great believer that in the case of "young love" everyone is nervous at the beginning
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You're perfect and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
so true.
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Snowbaby

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Would you like it if someone joined your board and added random replies to random topics begging for members??

I don't think so!
 
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