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I'm gonna say that's some good advice.... Three people have speeched me about her treatment of me and you're right it's completely unintentional but not right. We both know she's got issues and she's not exactly in a good place right now but she hates the idea that she's messed up at all and I've pushed her as much as I can for her to get help at the moment....

Also, I've been thinking about whether I'm travelling to get away from something or travelling towards something.... Might be a little of both but it'll give me a little/(lot?) more self-reliance which is part of why I get so upset. Since I spend so much time with her I rely a lot on her for my self-esteem. So when it goes to pot, so does my sense of sense-worth. Lets just hope I don't find someone else to rely on . And I do realise that I came to this travelling decision when I was getting an average of 4-5hours sleep cos of being upset and that the last few days have been pretty crappy. But feeling better and thinking more straight. While the idea is bloody TERRIFYING I think it's a good thing to do.

Thanks mary

<blockquote data-quote="Potholer" data-source="post: 40348" data-attributes="member: 5">I&#039;m gonna say that&#039;s some good advice.... Three people have speeched me about her treatment of me and you&#039;re right it&#039;s completely unintentional but not right. We both know she&#039;s got issues and she&#039;s not exactly in a good place right now but she hates the idea that she&#039;s messed up at all and I&#039;ve pushed her as much as I can for her to get help at the moment....Also, I&#039;ve been thinking about whether I&#039;m travelling to get away from something or travelling towards something.... Might be a little of both but it&#039;ll give me a little/(lot?) more self-reliance which is part of why I get so upset. Since I spend so much time with her I rely a lot on her for my self-esteem. So when it goes to pot, so does my sense of sense-worth. Lets just hope I don&#039;t find someone else to rely on <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue&nbsp; &nbsp; :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />. And I do realise that I came to this travelling decision when I was getting an average of 4-5hours sleep cos of being upset and that the last few days have been pretty crappy. But feeling better and thinking more straight. While the idea is bloody TERRIFYING I think it&#039;s a good thing to do.Thanks mary <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Potholer, post: 40348, member: 5"] I'm gonna say that's some good advice.... Three people have speeched me about her treatment of me and you're right it's completely unintentional but not right. We both know she's got issues and she's not exactly in a good place right now but she hates the idea that she's messed up at all and I've pushed her as much as I can for her to get help at the moment.... Also, I've been thinking about whether I'm travelling to get away from something or travelling towards something.... Might be a little of both but it'll give me a little/(lot?) more self-reliance which is part of why I get so upset. Since I spend so much time with her I rely a lot on her for my self-esteem. So when it goes to pot, so does my sense of sense-worth. Lets just hope I don't find someone else to rely on :P. And I do realise that I came to this travelling decision when I was getting an average of 4-5hours sleep cos of being upset and that the last few days have been pretty crappy. But feeling better and thinking more straight. While the idea is bloody TERRIFYING I think it's a good thing to do. Thanks mary :) [/QUOTE]

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