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Just be careful. From one horrible experience I was in. My boyfriend and his ex were friendly for awhile. They chatted as friends and I was in a jealous brew. you can find my post if you want. (Though I wasn't very kind on the words there. It was frustrating and maddening. )

 Jealousy is a dangerous thing. It can make you lose trust and being possessive can push the person away.

If the talk is casual let it be, but you need to pull your boyfriend aside and ask if he isn't telling her too much about your personal lives together. If the ex still has feelings she won't be pleased. In fact I found out that the EX and him were joking about me and I was furious! I think its possible to be friends with the ex, but to an extent. I'm not asking you to monitor his emails or anything because that is a big flag no!

But you should at least ask him not to bring you into the conversation. Or your relationship. xD