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I am discovering, as I get older, that I am actually quite a possessive person. I like things to belong to me lol. I like my things, and I know that people are not things, but when I am in a relationship I kind of see the other person as the other half of me for that period of time in our lives.

But yeah, recently my friend discovered that her boyfriend was still speaking to his ex, and it wasn't in a sexual manner or anything like that. Just casual talk, and my friend somehow made peace with it. I had to commend her because I would not have been ok with that if the situation had been in my backyard.

How would you feel if your partner was talking to an ex?