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I've known people who really didn't want to give up that freedom and responsibility before, and after they're out of school, settled into a good job, have a partner they love, etc, they do end up realizing they want kids now. They've had their fun, their freedom, their space away from everything, and the next step for them is to bring new people into the world to love and mold and play with and mess up, lol.

 

So yes, it's normal to be scared or to not even want kids. And yes, maybe you'll change your mind later. That's okay, too. There's obviously no rush and reason to have to decide right now. Just stay safe when you do have sex at some point so it doesn't happen by accident and if you realize it's the right choice for you later on, so be it. There's nothing wrong with you either way, though.