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Society makes us believe that a woman's ultimate goal is having children but that is not true;  every woman feel different about pregnancy and a woman may not ever feel at least "maternal instinct" when seeing a child, like some celebrities claim in interviews, and all of this is natural.

When I was a teen I felt like you so I thought it was better not having children for my own wellness. Overtime I found I was not interested in motherhood really, but perhaps when the time would come I would love to have a baby. That time never came despite I learned that pregnancy is not what I thought in my youth days, but I don't see myself having babies.

However when you grow older, you may find yourself asking if you did right opting for not get pregnant, but the answer is strictly personal. What is good for me, may not be good for you.