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Well, I still havent heard from her.  I dont know - a mutual friend (who also hasnt heard from her) says to just give her space and reassures me that she does love me and does care about me.

But I dont understand why the silent treatment.  She tells me she loves me, last we spoke, and she put a lot of effort into our relationship, too.  I feel the reason why it hasnt worked was because she was not ready for a relationship in a lot of ways, but that doesnt mean that she doesnt love me.

And she is not the kind of girl to go out and casually date - she puts a lot of thought and effort into things.  And she does seem to be immensely loyal.  I just wonder though if her guy friend, that she seems to be in denial about, is becoming more than just a friend or not.  I guess I cant worry about it anyway - since I havent heard from her in 3 weeks now.