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Dera, I really can't blame you for feeling the way you do!  You actually have all the right to feel this way, because getting married is a huge legal step that might change your life in many ways.  What you should do now is try to think more about what your actual concern is: are you worried about the wedding ceremony? worried about the financial and legal aspects of getting married in general and in the future? overwhelmed by the high rate of divorces?  worried about moving in together?  worried about the future? having doubts about your future husband?