Reply to thread

I've never stayed friends with exes.  Things always ended terribly and I kept telling myself that someday I'd be mature enough to maintain some level of civility with someone I was no longer involved with.  The older I grew, I realized it wasn't maturity or a lack thereof or even me at all.  I picked some real losers and they stayed true to their loser-y qualities to the very end.  They made it impossible to speak to without going insane.  So for my sanity, I didn't maintain contact and I can't say I have any regrets.  Now I'm married and don't really even think about this issue.  Perhaps in another life, on another planet, I maintained healthy relationships with all of my past boyfriends or flings.  Oh well