Same here Jen, I had a crush on phil for 2 and half three years.
The first time I met him was when I was pregnant With Chloe.
WOW Instantly I knew that I wanted to be with him but he was in a relationship and so was I 
We became best mates and was for a few years, then he split up with his ex and for some reason we lost contact When I was pregnant with Kyle
Then on the day Kyle was born, I came home after six hours, and there was a sound I reconized outside the house I went running to the window it was Phil on his motorbike, He couldn't believe I had just had Him and was home already and my ex had gone out to wet his head and left me bymyself, Which was typical of him.
The weirdiest thing was we was moving house 9 days later and if he had not turned up then I proberley would have never seen him again 
From then on he came down every weekend and then started to stop over saturdays (on the sofa ) The kids loved him coming up as they never got any attention of there real dad, As he was friends with my ex too. WAS not no more lol
We used to chat every night on email thru my NTL box and we used to flirt like mad but nothing ever happened because he thought that I was happy with Jay. That was far from the truth.
But anyway long story short I fell madly in love with him. Had to pluck my courage up to dump the other one without him kicking off. Took about 2 months in total to get him to back off a bit, In the end ended up moving to a different part of Nottingham, This was in October, Phil came up nearly every night from Leicster Most the time used to drive back, then started stopping over and in January he finally moved in properly and we got engaged this christmas and have a lovely baby Abi.
He's the best thing that could have ever happened to me I could ask for anything better :flower4u:
The kids class Phil as there real dad now and I love it
Charlotte 
