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actually this works.  I have done it a few times myself.  The not responding part is not exactly completely accurate.  You do respond to what each other say but after a cool down period.  That is what the 48 hours are for.  That way you both think about what each other said and discuss with yourself in your mind why the other person feels that way.  It helps when trying to come to compromise.


It is really hard to sit and listen to someone that long without saying anything but it really does eliminate the actual arguing.  It took a couple of tries to get it right but it was well worth it in the end.  And sitting and listening, most of the time you dont have to respond, the look on your face tells alot.  and vise versa.


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