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This is a difficult one because again the legal standing is that it's the womans right to chose. 

Also the culture comes into it unfortunately, as in most things with sum cultures the man has the decision making ability and it's unusual for the woman to have much say at all so there is this thing about the husband having his authority questioned in this case.

However i do feel for the guy - to be told your going to be a dad then after the mother holidaying with her parents to then be told your not going to be a dad becauser the child is not wanted it's gotta hurt.

I feel that ultimately it is the mothers choice as it is her body but she needs to explain her reasons logically to her husband so he understands why she does not want this.

It's one thing to tell your partner you do not want his child but altogether to not give him a valid reason for such a decision and leave him wondering what he's done sooo wrong that you can't bear to bear his child.