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LunarScorpio, I can understand your sadness - I lost a close friend due to similar circumstances. Her boyfriend was also a drug-addict and the energy that surrounds that is so negative etc...I had to remove myself. But not after TRYING like hell to help her SEE.

 

She chose him. We have not spoken to this day, but the pain I felt at that point...when our friendship started shattering was gut wrenching.

 

As for YOU. I think yours is worse than mine - you come a longer way and I would keel over and die if something like that happened to the best friend that I have now.

 

I do not think that you need to forget her - love is forever - just love her from a distance. When she wakes up she will return, but you cannot count on it. SO maybe fully grieve the loss of her now...feel it fully and do not judge what you are feeling. Then release it with trust and I am sure that your heart will then open up to the possibilty of another friendship...

 

She is far too toxic to be around now.

 

But for now you need a more nurturing friendship, one where you are both on the same page. There are people out there who would love to have a close friend with a true person such as yourself.

 

Thank you for sharing. All the best and I am sure 2012 will bring you more of what your heart desires.


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