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A few things

Discussion in 'Come in and have a moan!' started by Potholer, Mar 10, 2005.

  1. Potholer

    Potholer Active Member

    Well, it appears the computer hates me, as I just wrote a big whine and it was lost *smiles*...

    I hate how my friend A is really annoyed at my other friend K and wont talk to her about it. Instead she wrote a big moan in her blog and says terrible comments behind her back. Really not often (I've only heard her say something mean once)but just...the venom in her voice when she said it. Made me want to cry.

    But what really annoys me is that I can't get up the guts to tell A to talk to K. Why can't I confront people?????? *headesk*

    Also, I bloody hate how crummy another friend has it at home. Her parents split up years ago and they both remarried. She loves her Dad and gets along with him and his wife fine.
    But her mum got married about 3 years ago to a real schmuck who she cannot and does not get along with. She wouldn't have that much of a problem if her mum and stepdad didn't fight. She said it, infact. It doesn't really matter to her whether she gets alogn with him but when her mum doesn't, that's totally different. And, fight, as in shouting and slamming doors. In fact, once she was woken up at 7am on a sunday by them shouting at each other, her mum ended up walking out of the house, as did she not long after. Why should anyone have to live with that?

    She used tt live with her dad but he's moving up to Auckland and now she has to move in her her mum and stepdad. It's been one day and already she's gotten into a fight with her stepdad and has fully wanted to throttle him. Not to mention that often she isn't on talking terms with her mother.

    And here I am with parents. a brother and a sister who love me and we all get along and she has to live with that. She's been cheated and it sucks and I can't do a thing to help her. Helplessness is a real dog [​IMG].

  2. fastchaz36

    fastchaz36 New Member

    She'll be alright. [​IMG]

    She as just got to get along with her mum and not worry about her stepdad at the end of the day her mum should be there no matter what.

    Tell her she as just got to try and get along with him, she does not have to like him I'm sure she will be willing to give it a go just to be able to get on with her mum

    Think yourself lucky if you are in a home where everyone gets along [​IMG] try and be there for her the best you can when she will need a friend like you the most

    Charlotte [​IMG]
  3. Potholer

    Potholer Active Member


    She did say that she wouldn't mind not getting along with her stepdad if him and her mum didn't fight alot. She said something along the lines of "It's their relationship and it has little to do with me. It's their happiness that matters in this but it really seems like they aren't happy"

    I guess the most I can do is give her hugs and let her unload.

    Thanks for the help [​IMG]
  4. fastchaz36

    fastchaz36 New Member

    Like you said just be there for her as much as you can.

    Charlotte [​IMG]
  5. Tiddlyjen

    Tiddlyjen New Member

    its okay chicken!
    You're being a great friend by supporting her...
  6. Snowbaby

    Snowbaby Active Member

  7. arwenpotter

    arwenpotter New Member

    is it any better potty? [​IMG] i didnt get to talk to you today :S
  8. Potholer

    Potholer Active Member

    [​IMG] Gutted that we didn't get to talk *sigh*

    Yeah, it's better now. Well, there is a bit of a wedding/family issues episode that had her a bit upset but I'm pretty sure thigns are going better for her, at least for now it is, heh.

    Thanks everyone for your help [​IMG]
  9. Tiddlyjen

    Tiddlyjen New Member

    its what we're here for luvey!
  10. Snowbaby

    Snowbaby Active Member

  11. twinkle

    twinkle New Member

    we r all here for you if you need to talk,
  12. Snowbaby

    Snowbaby Active Member

  13. Potholer

    Potholer Active Member

    You all rock. [​IMG]
  14. Snowbaby

    Snowbaby Active Member

    I know I do....

    Oh.... we all rock.... yes we do!!!!!!!! [​IMG]
  15. Potholer

    Potholer Active Member


    Have a pretty flower, Snowy :flower4u: . Here's a close up of it --> [​IMG]

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