Potholer
Active Member
Well, it appears the computer hates me, as I just wrote a big whine and it was lost *smiles*...
I hate how my friend A is really annoyed at my other friend K and wont talk to her about it. Instead she wrote a big moan in her blog and says terrible comments behind her back. Really not often (I've only heard her say something mean once)but just...the venom in her voice when she said it. Made me want to cry.
But what really annoys me is that I can't get up the guts to tell A to talk to K. Why can't I confront people?????? *headesk*
Also, I bloody hate how crummy another friend has it at home. Her parents split up years ago and they both remarried. She loves her Dad and gets along with him and his wife fine.
But her mum got married about 3 years ago to a real schmuck who she cannot and does not get along with. She wouldn't have that much of a problem if her mum and stepdad didn't fight. She said it, infact. It doesn't really matter to her whether she gets alogn with him but when her mum doesn't, that's totally different. And, fight, as in shouting and slamming doors. In fact, once she was woken up at 7am on a sunday by them shouting at each other, her mum ended up walking out of the house, as did she not long after. Why should anyone have to live with that?
She used tt live with her dad but he's moving up to Auckland and now she has to move in her her mum and stepdad. It's been one day and already she's gotten into a fight with her stepdad and has fully wanted to throttle him. Not to mention that often she isn't on talking terms with her mother.
And here I am with parents. a brother and a sister who love me and we all get along and she has to live with that. She's been cheated and it sucks and I can't do a thing to help her. Helplessness is a real dog
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*sigh*
I hate how my friend A is really annoyed at my other friend K and wont talk to her about it. Instead she wrote a big moan in her blog and says terrible comments behind her back. Really not often (I've only heard her say something mean once)but just...the venom in her voice when she said it. Made me want to cry.
But what really annoys me is that I can't get up the guts to tell A to talk to K. Why can't I confront people?????? *headesk*
Also, I bloody hate how crummy another friend has it at home. Her parents split up years ago and they both remarried. She loves her Dad and gets along with him and his wife fine.
But her mum got married about 3 years ago to a real schmuck who she cannot and does not get along with. She wouldn't have that much of a problem if her mum and stepdad didn't fight. She said it, infact. It doesn't really matter to her whether she gets alogn with him but when her mum doesn't, that's totally different. And, fight, as in shouting and slamming doors. In fact, once she was woken up at 7am on a sunday by them shouting at each other, her mum ended up walking out of the house, as did she not long after. Why should anyone have to live with that?
She used tt live with her dad but he's moving up to Auckland and now she has to move in her her mum and stepdad. It's been one day and already she's gotten into a fight with her stepdad and has fully wanted to throttle him. Not to mention that often she isn't on talking terms with her mother.
And here I am with parents. a brother and a sister who love me and we all get along and she has to live with that. She's been cheated and it sucks and I can't do a thing to help her. Helplessness is a real dog
*sigh*
