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Hi there Claudia, I would like to give you a piece of advice. I was with a guy for 4 years and at first I thought he was the sweetest guy I ever knew as well. He was so nice to me in person but over facebook chat he would always put me down and seem like a totally different person. He used to tell me how my negativity used to drain him. Like nothing I would ever say would make him happy because I only would make him feel depressed. I was so hurt and because of that I started to think illogically. I felt like I was the problem because he was so wonderful before, that it must be me. However the thing was that all I ever mentioned to him was how I was in a difficult situation. My mother had reappeared in my life. (She physically abused me when I was younger.) and it was hard for me to sit alone on this with her constantly saying mean things to me. Anyhow something like depression shouldn't be thrown at your face. A good boyfriend will listen to you rant, (even if he isn't listening - he wont admit it), and he won't complain by say your putting him down. A relationship should be two people working together. If he won't stand side by side and help you through your issues. He doesn't sound like he cares very well.The reason I didn't leave my boyfriend at first was because I didn't think I'd ever be able to find anyone else because of my (baggage) but after years I finally snagged a guy who sits at my side and helps me when I'm feeling down. He never says anything negative to me and is always ready to put things aside for me. TBH I don't think he is good for you. I know you don't want to hear it, but I think it's best that you put this aside. It hurts, I know - I remember the times where I sat calling him and wanting to return to his side, but looking back, I'm glad I decided to finally let it go and walk away.
Hi there Claudia, I would like to give you a piece of advice. I was with a guy for 4 years and at first I thought he was the sweetest guy I ever knew as well. He was so nice to me in person but over facebook chat he would always put me down and seem like a totally different person. He used to tell me how my negativity used to drain him. Like nothing I would ever say would make him happy because I only would make him feel depressed. I was so hurt and because of that I started to think illogically. I felt like I was the problem because he was so wonderful before, that it must be me.
However the thing was that all I ever mentioned to him was how I was in a difficult situation. My mother had reappeared in my life. (She physically abused me when I was younger.) and it was hard for me to sit alone on this with her constantly saying mean things to me. Anyhow something like depression shouldn't be thrown at your face. A good boyfriend will listen to you rant, (even if he isn't listening - he wont admit it), and he won't complain by say your putting him down. A relationship should be two people working together. If he won't stand side by side and help you through your issues. He doesn't sound like he cares very well.
The reason I didn't leave my boyfriend at first was because I didn't think I'd ever be able to find anyone else because of my (baggage) but after years I finally snagged a guy who sits at my side and helps me when I'm feeling down. He never says anything negative to me and is always ready to put things aside for me. TBH I don't think he is good for you. I know you don't want to hear it, but I think it's best that you put this aside. It hurts, I know - I remember the times where I sat calling him and wanting to return to his side, but looking back, I'm glad I decided to finally let it go and walk away.
