Hi, I'm new here. From what I understand, guys are allowed on this site. Thats pretty refreshing and should make for some interesting conversation I'm sure. My name is Levar by the way, and yes I was named after the actor Levar Burton. Speaking of which, its ironic that Reading Rainbow became one of my most beloved shows when I was a kid...ironic isn't it. But I digress. I'm not good at describing myself without sounding sad, but I'll try by first saying that I'm pretty strange, as in eccentric, that is, I'm quiet alot, so I give the appearance of being mysterious, unapproachable, and wierd, though that's not my intention. At this point, I don't have many friends, and I am at the point in my life, age 26, where I am learning to not judge people and give them the benefit of the doubt, because I would want the same in return. Furthermore, I'm marriage minded...I try to be atleast. I believe in love and being in love although that has yet to happen to me. When it comes to making friends, relationships as a whole, I'd say I need improvement and patience. I realize that sometimes no matter how nice you are or persistent, you can not persuade some people to like you nor should you try. Oh, one day I'll be completely comfortable in my own skin and it won't be hard to smile. The title of this "topic" basically deals with something I struggle with constantly, and that is how to approach women, what to say, what to expect and that good stuff. Wouldn't it be delightful if we could read minds. Then again, its kind of scarey when you think about it. Still, at the end of the day, I figure its a waste of time trying to please everyone.