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Emotionally and romantically attatched to a fictional character...

Discussion in 'Trekkie Girls' started by Lugia, Aug 23, 2010.

  1. Lugia

    Lugia Active Member

    • No, it's not Twilight.
    • No, it's not just a fangasm.

    I am... in love... with a Star Trek character. :( What do I do?! I don't know how to describe it...
     
  2. Why are you so attached to this character? Is it physicall attraction? If it is, it's nothing to worry about :) All girls at some point in their life feel attracted to a fictional character. Edward Cullen for exmple. As a 15 year old girl, I felt attracted to him. :)
    So nothing to worry about. ;'].
     
  3. cissi

    cissi New Member

    Yeah, this is very common, probably good though to not be too obsessed, which i dont think you are. :)
     
  4. Orrymain

    Orrymain Member

    If it's keeping you from real life and real relationships, you need to cut the cord.
     
  5. Stavy

    Stavy Member

    depends... is he cute? [​IMG]

    i had a mad crush on Mr Spock when I was about 12... it's harmless and you'll grow out of it... meanwhile... enjoy! :)
     
  6. NatureElf

    NatureElf Member

    Good advice here. It is just a normal thing I think most, if not all, of us go through. Not much different than having a crush on a rock star. :)
     
  7. Stavy

    Stavy Member

    That's exactly how it is NatureElf.. Rock stars. movie stars, fictional characters, they are all equally unreachable by most ordinary people, and that is what attracts us to them.
     
  8. Orrymain

    Orrymain Member

    That's a good way of looking at it. It just needs to stay rational though.
     
  9. oceangypsy

    oceangypsy Member

    Yes, we cannot allow our selves to become all consumed and obsessed with such things. As long as we lead a normal life in other aspects it is all ok.
     
  10. Stavy

    Stavy Member

    Having the hots for a movie star is pretty normal.. I still go a bit weak at the knees when I see Mark Harmon in NCIS ;)
     
  11. oceangypsy

    oceangypsy Member

    Ah yes, I feel the same when I see Johnny Depp. I have had a crush on him since I was in high school and he was in 21 Jump Street.
     
  12. Orrymain

    Orrymain Member

    Growing up I think we all have some affection for a star. I still love the same folks I did then, though.
     
  13. Stavy

    Stavy Member

    I'm terribly fickle and will easily transfer my affections to some new hot thing.. ;)
     
  14. Orrymain

    Orrymain Member

    I know folks like you, Stavy. I've always been pretty steady. I have a core group of performers from my youth who I still consider my favorites today. I've added a few here and there, but my core group I value so highly.
     
  15. Stavy

    Stavy Member

    There is only so much unrequited lurve you can have for one fictional character Orrymain... If the object of my affection is ignoring me i'll just move onto the next :)
     

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