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Either you trust your husband/boy friend or you don't. I don't think there is an in between, where we can say, yes I trust him but only if he doesn't do this or that. And not sure why the behavior would be different online than it is off-line?

If a guy wants to cheat, he will do it. Telling anyone they can't chat online, is the same as telling him you can't go to work, as no matter what he does for a living, there will be contact with other women.

This post reminds me of all these "find out if your husband cheats" detective sites.. darn if you have to go to that extreme, I think it's much better and cheaper to just get a divorce.

Also trust is not something that's just there, trust is earned!