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The only thing that comes close to jealousy for me is when a guy keeps talking and talking about the things he did with other women in the past, and even yet I'm not sure it's really jealousy what I feel.  I think I actually feel like I'm being disrespected and not treated right, because I'm right there and we should just be focusing on ourselves, not in  things that happened years ago.

What would it look like if I did the same?  When a guy does that it would seem he is thinking of those women all the time. For me is odd, because I don't even think of the boyfriends I had in the past, at least not in a sexual way, if you guys know what I mean.  When I think of an ex the first thing that comes in my mind are the things we did outside of the bed, not on the bed.  For me a relationship is more than sex.