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Whoa! Being bothered would be an understatement. This is not a good sign. If he and his family is that controlling, and you are put on the back burner, then it's possible he will treat you no differently after marriage. Obviously his family will always be priority, and a ring and a marriage certificate won't change the situation. He is supposed to leave his parents and cling to his wife. If he saw the two of you as having a future together, then he shouldn't have a problem introducing you to his family.

Sounds like he's hiding something. If you are sexually involved, then he should be willing to stop that too, if he was so serious about marrying you and not treat you like you are not good enough for him except when its convenient for him. If he can't take you seriously enough for that, then move on.