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Wow! Wow!

 

I would see this as a sign of things to come. It seems like his family would always come first even when you are married. When you marry someone, you are essentially marrying into the family. He loves and treasures his family and I like that quality in a man, but I see that as extreme.  I wouldn't be able to handle that. I would take it as showing little respect or compassion for my feelings. I would also see it as taking me for granted.

 

I love my mother, but she is a control freak. I would never marry a guy if he had a mother like mine. It would be a deal breaker for me. Only you can make the decision, but I would see this a sign of things to come. It doesn't look good, so I would walk away now.

 

Hugs to you.