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Well a few days ago the EX showed up, to meet one on one at his house. I kind of was asked to sit another room which I did and eventually the two of them worked out their issues. I was able to speak to the EX myself in which I learned that she was the one actually who was trying to get him to leave her alone. Which I was not expecting so when she asked we not speak with her ever again, I was understanding but confused.

So I thus I asked my BF why he still begged for her to continue to talk with him, etc as it bothered me if his EX no longer wanted any interaction with him, why was he pressuring her to make the commitment of being friends again. In a long story short I felt he might have still loved her so I told him, I was prepared to leave if needed be. However as I was leaving my BF finally pulled me aside and told me the reason.

Which, makes sense why he wants to connect with his ex so much and I feel stupid for not thinking up this reason for before. Anyways, everything has settled down in the long run and I no longer feel threatened by the EX's presence. SO I am happy and relieve now that I finally got the answer I wanted to hear. It's funny how lack of communication can mess everything up lol.