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I think, deep inside, you still doubt his actions even when he assures you that he won't cheat on you. And that's normal. I can totally understand how you could be envious of his ex.  I made it a point to introduce my ex and my current partner because I and my ex have one best friend. We even went out together to make my partner see what kind of person my ex is and to make him more comfortable when I tell him that we're going to hang out together.

 

Has your boyfriend ever told you why they broke up? He may have initiated the break up but she may have experienced what you are currently feeling right now reason why she's "paranoid".  It's not the potential cheating that worries me but whether he will be considerate of your feelings someday when the time comes you tell him  about your concerns.