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Another thing to keep in mind is that she's looking for a response or reaction from you.  Don't give it to her.  You can't control how she acts, and hopefully she'll figure out pretty quickly that she needs to knock it off.  However, you can control how you act or react.

 

When someone does something that REALLY drives me crazy, I remind myself of my favorite quote "Always remember that others may hate you but those who hate you don't win unless you hate them. And then you destroy yourself."  This was said by former U.S. president, Richard Nixon.  It's funny because he wasn't a spectacular leader, and he made some poor choices, but these words are very true and empowering.  Not to say that your frienemy hates you, but it's all about how you react.  I also love Gandhi's idea of be the change you want to see in others.  Maybe it will be contagious.


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