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Man, people can make any behaviour sound insulting -- you're a prude or you're a slut or a bitch or frigid... Bad-mouthing is not something that people should take power or pride in, and yet they come up with this sort of crap all the time. I lost my virginity a week before I turned 20 and I felt like I was too picky many times, and like I could not partake in all the raunchy gossip and all. Three years later, I don't think it really made any difference. And the most thrilling part was the moment when our hands were touching, timidly, testing the water and seeing if the feeling went both ways. Seriously. I don't think there is pride to have in having a lot of sex, or no sex at all -- the pride should be in knowing what you want and refusing to compromise on what you value.