Reply to thread

I agree with everything Lee11 said. Counseling is a great idea and can open up the intimacy you want with your partner. A good counselor will be able to help you each understand the other better, and point out things neither of you may see.  I know that physical intimacy is not everything in a relationship, but it is an important part. I like that you have the mindset of wanting to keep the spark alive, that is half of the battle right there.