to Speedy: Thanks for your reply! I don't really agree with you on the abortion-part. I want my baby to have a father who cares about me and the baby, a father who isn't cheating, drinking with his friends every free time he'll get. taking care of us and make sure that we're gonna have a good life and so on.. He is and will be for the rest of his life... an ass. So I think it was the right thing to do, And I don't judge you for being against abortion, we just have different opinions 
to bethanyparker: aw, just hang in there! Your day with engagement and everything will come I know what you mean, having a little family of my own has always been my dream. BUT I wanted to wait until I found the right guy for me, and that is what I did, last spring. I know a lot of people who says "you will destroy your life if you have a baby at young age! Live life blabla...party and travel blabla" To be honest, I don't think living the life has to be traveling and partying, to me it is settle down and start a family
ShiraGin: average in Sweden for having children is around 23-28 years I think. My mum had me when she was 25 But I guess that's very individual. Thank you for your answer! I'm sorry for not writing replying with a looong text, I am sooooo tired... My back hurts and yesterday I woke up with the worst nausea ever, so I haven't got much sleep.
apple: I am sooo sure he is the right one for me He is the man of my dreams ^^
I don't know what I want to do before having a baby.. I don't really like partying and all that stuff you do when you are 18 and can go to clubs.. It feels like I have done all that stuff already. So i dont know..
I'm not gonna TRY to get pregnant right now, I don't want to (like you said) rush into things on purpose. But IF it happens I am not going through an abortion one more time, that's for sure. Thank you for your reply! )
Question: Is it "tabu" having a baby when you're not married in England/USA wherever you guys are from?
