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You know, when I was 18 I was living with my boyfriend (now my husband) and felt so ready to be a mum. Just like you've described. I really wanted to have a baby.


Fortunately for me, it didn't happen. I had my first daughter when I was 24, after I have graduated from university and had a profession and a job, and even that was too early. And I am so thankful for not having a baby at age 18!

Babies are not just the cuddly cheeks you can kiss and sing to. It's not even the waking up at night and feeding and taking care of them. Babies grow up, and become children, and adults, and you are responsible for them. For your entire life you're going to wear your heart out, caring and worrying for somebody else.


I love my kids to death, but I would give a lot of a few minutes of my childless tranquility.


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