lohgan
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This is kind of a complicated one (at least to me it is), so if anyone can give me some good advice on this, I would love you forever.
My name's Logan, I'm 16 < Just a little info..
I started talking to this guy, we'll call him Mark. We would text constantly every single day, non-stop. There was no time where my phone wasn't blinking that I had a message.
So finally after awhile we started hanging out.
First time we hung out we sat about 1 foot from each other and watched part of a movie.
Second time we hung out we watched The Pianist and we started cuddling towards the end and would hold hands.
And after those two times we started gradually getting closer with each other, and we would always cuddle.
(Note: This is the kind of guy I know isn't using me to get into my pants. We could actually have good long conversations over stuff, have so much fun, laugh, and play xbox and stuff like that.)
So one night we were down in my room watching Saw and we kissed.
After that we would kiss when he would come over but that wasn't all we would do which was nice.
And we both wanted to be around each other.
We both texted each other wanting to hang out, or called and asked each other if we wanted to hang out.
The last time we hung out was last Saturday. And we hardly text anymore (he says because of his bill, I believe we both have different plans and he doesn't have unlimited texting), but he hasn't called or anything.
And when I call/text him to hang out, he doesn't respond, and gets on AIM and talks to me then and I ask whats the deal and he always says he's busy.
But this new girl, we'll name her Sarah climbed 4 spaces on his Myspace top, and was now 2 spaces infront of me instead of behind me, and I started to worry.
Now, my looks are okay. I'm average. I'm not ugly, but I'm not drop dead gorgeous either.
But Sarah is so..so pretty and I'm honestly intimidated because I'm used to liking guys and then some beautiful girl come and take him away from me.
But it turns out they've been hanging out and I started thinking 'she probably likes him, and he probabaly likes her too'.
So last night when he got on AIM I asked him if he liked her, and he said "idk" and I asked him what don't you know? And he said I don't know if I like her because I still kind of like you but idk.
So I was like okay.......................
And then I found out from one of my friends that they hung out yesterday and he tried to like lean in and kiss her or something and she didn't kiss him because he Dad was there.
And I don't know what to do.
Because last Sat. when we hung out he told me he really liked me after I told him I really liked him too.
And I asked if I was just a hook-up and nothing more, and he said no.
And thats what he is turning this into...a hook-up.
He's also not ready to date because he got out a 1 1/2 year relationship over the summer.
Am I doing something wrong guys?
Should I waste my time?
Should I try for him?
Or what?
A lot of feedback would be great. It's kind of a complicated story and I tried to explain it as well as I could..but any help would be magnificent.
Thank you!
My name's Logan, I'm 16 < Just a little info..
I started talking to this guy, we'll call him Mark. We would text constantly every single day, non-stop. There was no time where my phone wasn't blinking that I had a message.
So finally after awhile we started hanging out.
First time we hung out we sat about 1 foot from each other and watched part of a movie.
Second time we hung out we watched The Pianist and we started cuddling towards the end and would hold hands.
And after those two times we started gradually getting closer with each other, and we would always cuddle.
(Note: This is the kind of guy I know isn't using me to get into my pants. We could actually have good long conversations over stuff, have so much fun, laugh, and play xbox and stuff like that.)
So one night we were down in my room watching Saw and we kissed.
After that we would kiss when he would come over but that wasn't all we would do which was nice.
And we both wanted to be around each other.
We both texted each other wanting to hang out, or called and asked each other if we wanted to hang out.
The last time we hung out was last Saturday. And we hardly text anymore (he says because of his bill, I believe we both have different plans and he doesn't have unlimited texting), but he hasn't called or anything.
And when I call/text him to hang out, he doesn't respond, and gets on AIM and talks to me then and I ask whats the deal and he always says he's busy.
But this new girl, we'll name her Sarah climbed 4 spaces on his Myspace top, and was now 2 spaces infront of me instead of behind me, and I started to worry.
Now, my looks are okay. I'm average. I'm not ugly, but I'm not drop dead gorgeous either.
But Sarah is so..so pretty and I'm honestly intimidated because I'm used to liking guys and then some beautiful girl come and take him away from me.
But it turns out they've been hanging out and I started thinking 'she probably likes him, and he probabaly likes her too'.
So last night when he got on AIM I asked him if he liked her, and he said "idk" and I asked him what don't you know? And he said I don't know if I like her because I still kind of like you but idk.
So I was like okay.......................
And then I found out from one of my friends that they hung out yesterday and he tried to like lean in and kiss her or something and she didn't kiss him because he Dad was there.
And I don't know what to do.
Because last Sat. when we hung out he told me he really liked me after I told him I really liked him too.
And I asked if I was just a hook-up and nothing more, and he said no.
And thats what he is turning this into...a hook-up.
He's also not ready to date because he got out a 1 1/2 year relationship over the summer.
Am I doing something wrong guys?
Should I waste my time?
Should I try for him?
Or what?
A lot of feedback would be great. It's kind of a complicated story and I tried to explain it as well as I could..but any help would be magnificent.
Thank you!
