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Cool down, maybe have a nice cup of tea or coffee. After you've calmed down, go to him directly ( so you do not lose your cool ) and just talk it out. This may turn into an argument, but there is really no other way. All you can do is talk it out. I really do hope this gets resolved in time. But please, do not tell your children. If you do, I have a sneaking suspicion that they will not be helpful. They'll go to your boyfriend and try to work out a deal, if you know what I mean. So ( this does not apply to everyone ) hide your feelings until your boyfriend and you are together some time where you can safely talk. 

 

    This is my advice, if you really want it.