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I don't look for anything because I know if I'm going to be with a man. I would have to understand that at some point, he is going to step out of the relationship and commit infedility. I'm not okay with that but that is how it is in most cases. So, I don't look for any signs. I just do my part as a girlfriend. I'm not going to cultivate hypertension over a man because I'm obsessed with finding out if he is cheating on me or not. Believe it or not, it can be quite addicting. What is done in the dark will soon come to light. Eventually, his wrong doings will come out without  having to look into anything. I played the private investigator role when I was in my early 20s and I found out nothing. When I stopped searching, that is when I learned everything.