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I think before you talk to your friend or make any more moves with this guy, you have to have a long and honest look about not only how you feel about him but what his intentions are with you too.  Do you really care about him, or do you just enjoy the attention he gives you?  Is there a real basis for a relationship there like common interests and respect for one another, or is it just a case of flattery?  Also, you say that you don't even know if he wants more then a hook up with you.  Is that really worth losing your friend over?

 

Also, I think once you're honest with yourself and that entails you wanting to pursue something with this guy, you need to talk to your friend about it.  She might be hurt, and don't go in expecting her to support your decision.  Only you can decide if this guy is worth losing your friend over if that's the case.  But if you sneak around behind her back not only will you lose her friendship for sure, but also her respect and most likely the respect of your mutual friends.

 

Communication and honesty are key.


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