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He is just not that into me.

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RebekahF

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Are you getting sick of this?
Cause I sure am.
I am tired of being blown off by guys, and I am starting to think there is something wrong with me.
All my friends have boyfriends.
I know that is a red flag, and most will think I just want a boyfriend to fit in.
Honestly, I am at a point in my life where I am ready for a boyfriend.
Every guy just flirts with me, leads me on then blows me off.
I am sick of being the rule.
 
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Just hang in there. Go for a quiet shy one that you think might like you. Ask him out. I ask guys out. Why not... go for it.
 
what are some things that guys find attractive about you? perhaps evaluate yourself to see if you have some qualities that you could work on as well
 
I hate to say this, but you may be trying to hard. Guys can sense neediness and, when they sense it, they tend to run in the opposite direction! Try being aloof (but not rude) and see how their behaviors change toward you!
 
There's nothing wrong with you. A lot of gals go through high school without dating; in fact, I know some who don't get involved with a man until they finish with college. It's just the way life goes sometimes, but it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.
 
Well, you seem perfectly cool to me. Maybe you're just being too negative on the subject. Try getting to know people, not with the mindset of this person being a future lover or something but as a friend first. Once a person gets to know you even better feelings develop. :D So just be patient. Take your single status atm to turn you into a better person. :D
 
If he's playing head games with you, pretending he's not too interested, then that's his problem. When you find a guy that you like and who likes you back and you know it's for real, there won't be any head games. If a guy is really interested, he won't lead you on and then dump you. He will want you to know right away that he is interested, if only to keep you from going off and finding another guy. Till then, find a better class of guys to hang out with.
 
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I would say he just hasnt showed up yet.
Please be patient and be a smart girl.
If you could sense he is just not that into you leave him without any hesiation.
 
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