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You really have to think about why you're still with your boyfriend as it sounds like you don't care about him anymore. It could be OK, if it was just the sex you didn't want but you also say that you feel disconnected from and that you don't want to show love in other ways e.g hugs, holding hands ect..

If you don't feel like your relationship with your boyfriend is progressing than you may to be alone for awhile. Although you may not want to rush to date your crush, as you weren't attracted to him initially, so if he decided for example to go back to his old style and to get dreads again, you may not be interested in him anymore.

Instead it would be better to find a guy whose personality is just as attractive as his looks.