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I would consider the fact that it is much more than just the sex. I can't argue that a good sex life helps make for a better relationship, but it is always about the small stuff in the moments more than the sex itself. It would seem that your feelings for your boyfriend have long faded, and the real goal of your question is permission to make a change. If the feelings have faded and you aren't there you should certainly take a break. Not to try someone else on or for any reason other than the fact that your current relationship fails to provide your life with joy and happiness. Remember that it begins with you first, and then you bring that to the relationship. You are setting yourself up for failure if your hoping that the relationship will bring the joy and happiness instead of enhancing and adding to it.