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My grandfather was close to me too. When my mom used to be a working mom (because my dad died), she had to leave me with my grandparents. And I would stay there with them sitting in the area next to the big open door of my uncle's house. We would play silly games and joke about people walking about.

 

My thoughts are maybe you don't want him to recognize you because you're concerned of his sickness and don't want him to see how hurt you are about it. And maybe it would make you feel more awful to find out that he remembers you more than any other.

 

I agree with Uminoor. It may hurt to spend time with your grandfather, but I hope you find time to do so. We all had and will go through this phase in life so I'm sending you my hugs and support so you can be emotionally strong while visiting him.