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Okay, well to say that my partner DOES NOT listen and respect my opinion would be an overstatement and is down right unfair for him, he does, and I think a marriage/relationship is not going to survive at all without listening to your partner and respecting your partner.


Now, am I being treated as an equal partner? Sadly I think the answer to this is NO. Men would always be men and that's just it. My husband can go to his friends or to places without letting me know, I mean once he's out of the house, I cannot expect him to tell me what he does or where he is, I can't even go to the grocery without telling him.. He drinks when he wants to, without again asking or advising me (at the very least) that he would be, my best friend paid me a visit AT HOME we decided to grab a couple of bottles and he gives out a couple of comments.


Those may be petty and simple but it does make me feel violated a lot of times, i don't really expect him to treat me as a complete equal, I guess "traditionally" especially in this country that I live in, men are expected to drink or go out more, what not, than women, and I'm not really after going out so much and stuff, but I'm expecting him to appreciate that I do understand my bounds and that I don't ask to go out with friends too often. A little credit would be appreciated and also if he does not give me a hard time when I'm asking him would also be great.


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