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I just had to quote you on this one, Uminoor. I love that you've worded it out and it's so true.

 

Last night, I talked to my older sister about her marriage. I was asking her if she's still been showing affection to her husband from simple "i love yous" to hugging him or kissing him for no whatsoever reason. She told me she stopped doing it a long time ago. I had to remind her that even though men don't show that they like being complimented and wooed, they're actually big softees in that department. Surely a man would be stupid enough to resist his wife.

 

SarahLizzie: It does sound a bit odd but having that gut wrenching feeling can make you act in a way that your fears can manifest itself. I suggest you give him the benefit of the doubt in the mean time. Compliments are just words. It's the commitment that matters. If his wife has been nice to him, then play the nicer, more understanding and more loving girlfriend. After all, you're the one in a relationship with him.

 

I wish you all the best.