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Another One Bites The Dust

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Nautica

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I figured I'd tell the story here too...it's actually pretty funny...always listen to the dead fish...

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Oh boy, last night I had a date with the guy I have been seeing Thursday nights at The Pink Elephant when The Thugz play. We were meeting at my favorite beach this time.

Bullet (the doggie) and I showed up early and were walking along the beach. I was thinking about the guy and how we were going to talk about the state of affairs between us, something that I HATE to do, by the way...I was also thinking about this book I read when I was younger...where the lady's guiding spirit would give her a sign if she was making the right decision...friggin' hippies!! I thought, "Boy, it sure would be nice to come across a sand dollar right about now!"

I came across a sign, alright, in the form of a dead fish! I tell you what, I should have just gone home right then and there! BUT, Bullet was having fun, and I wanted to see what would happen, with the dead fish sign and all...

The fish was right...the guy is all in love with this married broad...waiting for her to leave her husband...yeah, THAT is gonna work out just great for the poor guy...so what was he doing with me? Actually, nothing. But he was meeting me every Thursday, then came out to see me at work Saturday, then to listen to a friend's band after...then invited me to Open Mike Night at The Pink, then met me at the beach last night...

But whatever, like I told the guy, I am the love of SOMEBODY'S life, and THAT'S the person I want to be with, so no worries...

Maybe I should date the fish... HeHe!![/b]
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Nautica,

You are as funny as hell! I'm sorry though that it didn't work out for you.

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LOL!! If you can't appreciate the humor in life, whatareyagonnado??

Thanks, and it's all good...I was thinking about skipping my usual Thursday "thing," which was, of course, going to The Pink, but why should I? I'm not the one that was semi-cheating on my married girlfriend that wont leave her husband...
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lol i really dont know what to say to that one... poor you and poor guy... either that or ignorant guy...

anywho... sorry it didnt work out with that... though i have to say the fish would never leave ya for a married chick lol
 
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You shouldn't date dead fish. You'll never get that smell out of your curtains.
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LMAO!!! You guys are killin' me!!!

Thanks!!! We will continue on with this saga, I am sure...I feel like Ally McBeal, for Pete's sake!!!
 
Yeah...I'm sure I will get my sense of humor back eventually...I am coming to the realization that I am flailing because I never got any closure with the guy I had been seeing since January...

I don't need a guy, but DANG!!! When the stupid dead fish guy would put his arms around me, well, THAT'S what I need sometimes. A big ol fat hug!!!
 
aw.... i am so sorry! If i were close enough i would give you one... (though you gotta settle for a virtual one for now) ((((HUGS)))

i know it really doesnt help in the situation...
 
Sure it does...thanks!

Really, sometimes just talking (or typing, as the case may be) helps...in my life, with my job, I am expected to be "up" all the time, and happy, and never feel down, or sad, or...weird, like I have been feeling. No one wants to hear it, because I cover up and hide so much that people can't handle it when it comes all pouring out...so I hang with the landlord's dog, go to the beach, come here and let some of it out, cry, stomp, go to the beach again...

And really, the dead fish as a sign IS hilarious, but I am tired of being rejected, and feeling like the ugly friend...blah! What's the MATTER with me!!! I'm so negative all of a sudden! Well, it needs to stop right here and now. Well, maybe after a while...LOL!
 
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I think what my problem was is that I had gotten used to having someone...let's face it, it's really nice. THEN, all of a sudden, POOF! It was over, so when I met the dead fish guy again, I was after another relationship, even though I never said that...

But what was I thinkin'? I had been single and perfectly happy for the 3 years prior to 2007, so what's the big deal? I have snapped out of it, and realized that I am way happier and more confident as a single woman...DUH Nautica...LOL
 
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