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Don't worry, you're not alone. I went through the same thing that you did. I am not really bisexual...I am bigendered. I am pretty sure I am straight. I tried to hook up with two girls but never felt that attraction as I did with men, but I don't feel like a woman. I feel like and identify as male more than female. I knew I didn't fit in as lesbian or bi until I met my ex. He is also bigendered and even felt most comfortable in drag, but never wanted to be with a man. Gender is a fluid issue and we shouldn't try to label or box each other into it. I mean, I wear men's wear all of the time and no one calls me a drag queen so I thought him wearing a skirt around the house was no big deal. lol