The secret life of women

How many of you have a secret? ..
I would assume that if you say "I don't have one" you are probably lying.

We all have a secret in some form or another. Maybe you cheated on your taxes, you have a crush on your friends boyfriend, you are bi-curious, you have an addiction, you have an eating disorder.

I want this thread to be open, without judgment. A place where you can tell your secret and won't be afraid to be judged. If you feel the need to say something rude in your comment, just hit the back button and leave your comment somewhere else. This isn't the place for it.

I will start by saying that I secretly like to watch porn. I am very into girl-on-girl action but I'm not a lesbian. I am actually getting married in a few months to a man. My fiance knows I like to watch this type of thing and gets turned on by it. I don't talk about this with any of my close friends. I'm afraid they will look at me and think im gross.

Whats a secret you have?

We all have secrets or what I like to call them "skeletons in our closets". Sometimes it helps to talk about those things, sometimes it's best to keep them hidden. It really all depends on why they are a secret in the first place, would it help you or anyone else if you talked about them and last, have you dealt with it.

By that I mean is it bothering you that you haven't told anyone or is it just that you don't feel it necessary to disclose it to anyone?

Some things are just better left "in the closet", especially if would just bring hurt to others.

I read somewhere that someone quoted that we have THREE lives...a public one, a private one and a secret one. I felt that this is as close to the truth, at least my truth - it is different for everyone.

I do have secrets, sure, but none that will hurt anyone...just the kind that protects me from negativity and judgement. I see to it that i respect others, and my secrets add value to my life - as it seriously has nothing to do with anyone else.

Everybody has secrets. There are just somethings that people never need to know.

I do have a couple of big secrets, but they are big enough that I wouldn't share them with anyone, even my best friend.. because those secrets prove I'm a bad person.

There are some mild secrets, such as the fact that I'm bisexual.. but I do let most people know that as soon as I get close to them because it is a part of me and if they can't accept that, I don't want to be friends with them anyway.

I have a big secret that I'm afraid to tell anyone. I do think people will view me as a bad person, even though I'm not. I am also afraid of the judgement that will come from saying it. People are very harsh these days and not understanding to the fact that people make mistakes.

I also believe that everyone have secrets whether it is a big or small secrets.

I do have secrets and keep it because I think it will be the best to just keep it. Or I could not see any reason why it should be known to everyone. There are secrets better left unsaid or regret making it known in the end.