My 3yr6mth old daughter is the youngest and I thought I'd have no problems potty training her. Her brother and sister were self dependant at 3yrs. I waited until she was 3 and a bit, till it got warm but she screams at the site of undies and the potty. If I'm lucky I may get a minute of potty time once a day. Today we went swimming and after a while she got out and got dried, I put a nappy on her and 10 mins later she wanted to go swimming again. Her nappy was flooded, she'd held on until the nappy was back in place. She will sometimes take off a poopy nappy and wipe her bottom then take a clean nappy to Daddy to put on her. She's obviously got control of herself and it's just a mind struggle, has anyone else ever gone through this?