JesusMyHeart
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My best friend and I are close to each other in school. She is seriously bipolar I swear. Last week, she was still laughing and joking with each other on the phone. And the next hour after we stopped talking, she said that I did not prioritize her in my life, and had never spared a thought for her. I was really really very hurt, although I didn't make it very obvious. I had always treated her like my little sis, and she says these kind of things to me. She said that I was talking to my friend who was being a bitch to her last year. And she's really unhappy about that. She had a test that day, and she also felt a little sick. I didn't really talk to her cos she was like revising her work. I didn't want to disturb her cos the last time I did that she told me to keep quiet. I just went to the seat behind her and small talked with my friend that she hates. We only talked about music, I still asked her like 3 times if she needs me to test her on any facts, or help her in any way. She declined me offer so I resumed talking with my friend.
On the same day, cos she had a test after sch and ends sch later, I told her that I will go somewhere first. And she agreed. I went out with my bestie last year (she still is my bestie but we're in different classes) for lunch. After her test, my current bestie called me, and joined us. I was supposed to leave earlier cos I have tuition after that. However she came and thus started her lunch late. I waited for her and in the end I was late for tuition. I didn't really show much attention to her as usual, cos I really wanted to have some time to catch up with my old friend.
She claims that she had put me as her first
Priority in her life, while I didn't. When she almost wanted to commit suicide, I even cried profusely and wanted my mum to drive over to her place. When one of her friends betrayed her, I stayed up late till 2am+ just to comfort her, though I was really really exhausted. I had always
Protected her from any criticism.
After all these things I had done for her, and she still accuses me for
Not being there for her, I still apologized to her and I promised I'll do my best to prioritize her in my life more.
However, she did some things in the past which kinda hurt me, but I didn't want to say it. I'm scared
That I'll hurt her feelings :/ When I was have a fever in school due to the lack of
Sleep at night, she just said bye to me briefly and left me going home alone. I was really sick back then and I hoped that somebody was by my side to comfort me, but she left. When I reached home, she apologized for leaving me alone, but I said it was okay as I understand that she has other friends too.
Today, we had extra lessons but hers ended first. We said that we would meet a some place to go home together. However, she came and said that she couldn't wait any longer. I told her to give me 10min and I'll leave. But she said, " Erm, I want to go home with my friends. I'm really sorry." I said that it's fine and
Let her leave. She apologized to me again over the phone and told me that she had to leave first cos her friends were getting annoyed for waiting for so long. I'm a little hurt and angry cos she told me that I should prioritize her, and in the end she herself didn't prioritize me.
I feel that I'm the only one who is trying my very best to strengthen our friendship. Im still hurt by how she accussed me. I had always tried my very best to care for her, but she just says it like I didn't do anything at
All. I don't feel appreciated. I'm hurt. But I have to know that she has her flaws, and I just want to accept her for who she is. But I feel like she's not accepting me for who I am. I feel that I'm the only one trying. It's hard... To keep trying and nobody appreciates your effort, and still stabs you on the back by accusing you. :'(
On the same day, cos she had a test after sch and ends sch later, I told her that I will go somewhere first. And she agreed. I went out with my bestie last year (she still is my bestie but we're in different classes) for lunch. After her test, my current bestie called me, and joined us. I was supposed to leave earlier cos I have tuition after that. However she came and thus started her lunch late. I waited for her and in the end I was late for tuition. I didn't really show much attention to her as usual, cos I really wanted to have some time to catch up with my old friend.
She claims that she had put me as her first
Priority in her life, while I didn't. When she almost wanted to commit suicide, I even cried profusely and wanted my mum to drive over to her place. When one of her friends betrayed her, I stayed up late till 2am+ just to comfort her, though I was really really exhausted. I had always
Protected her from any criticism.
After all these things I had done for her, and she still accuses me for
Not being there for her, I still apologized to her and I promised I'll do my best to prioritize her in my life more.
However, she did some things in the past which kinda hurt me, but I didn't want to say it. I'm scared
That I'll hurt her feelings :/ When I was have a fever in school due to the lack of
Sleep at night, she just said bye to me briefly and left me going home alone. I was really sick back then and I hoped that somebody was by my side to comfort me, but she left. When I reached home, she apologized for leaving me alone, but I said it was okay as I understand that she has other friends too.
Today, we had extra lessons but hers ended first. We said that we would meet a some place to go home together. However, she came and said that she couldn't wait any longer. I told her to give me 10min and I'll leave. But she said, " Erm, I want to go home with my friends. I'm really sorry." I said that it's fine and
Let her leave. She apologized to me again over the phone and told me that she had to leave first cos her friends were getting annoyed for waiting for so long. I'm a little hurt and angry cos she told me that I should prioritize her, and in the end she herself didn't prioritize me.
I feel that I'm the only one who is trying my very best to strengthen our friendship. Im still hurt by how she accussed me. I had always tried my very best to care for her, but she just says it like I didn't do anything at
All. I don't feel appreciated. I'm hurt. But I have to know that she has her flaws, and I just want to accept her for who she is. But I feel like she's not accepting me for who I am. I feel that I'm the only one trying. It's hard... To keep trying and nobody appreciates your effort, and still stabs you on the back by accusing you. :'(