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Do you always confide in your spouse?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by moneymakingmom, Jun 16, 2011.

  1. Do you always tell your spouse or boyfriend everything? Or, do you keep some things secret? If your best friend was having an affair, would you tell your partner or keep that a secret? How much is too much truth to be telling to the man you love?
  2. bethanyparkin Member

    I tell my boy anything and everything, even if he could not care less. I don't have anything secret from him because I'm scared he'd start to lose trust in me. I tell him my business, and others business. I can trust him with my life, so he won't shatter my trust.
  3. speedy Member

    I always tell everything to my husband. At first, I am afraid to tell him about everything but little by little I am confident to tell him everything and anything I do. I am bad, yes, I even tell him the story of a friend. But if it is really confidential and a friend ask me not to tell anybody, I guess there is an exemption but as much as possible I don't want to keep secret with my husband.
  4. When spouses hide little things, it's just so easy to hide big things. It's always best to be candid with one's partner, even if what you are saying is not what they want to hear. Honesty really is the best policy, for the long term health of the relationship.
  5. Doll Leviste Member

    Sometimes, in order to protect your relationship you would rather keep things from your significant other. Minor things that might start a fire. I first weigh things, if I tell him this, how will he reacts? It may be nothing to me but he might find it offensive...
  6. I think of my partner as my best friend, before I think of him as anything or anyone else. We both confide in each other, and it's an aspect of our relationship that I truly appreciate :) .
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  7. beingwell Member

    Oh we talk about all things. We don't really keep anything from each other, not to my knowledge that is.:D
  8. It's nice to know you have such a trusting relationship with your boyfriend. It's good to have someone
    so trustworthy in your life. I have the same trusting relationship with my own husband. We don't always agree on things, but we do talk it out and keep the lines of communication open and that's what keeps our relationship strong and healthy.
  9. soccerbai123 Member

    not all of it.
    but i tell him about the important things that happens in my life.
    even though sometimes he is too busy to listen
  10. roxfan003 Member

    I tell my husband everything and he tells me everything. We don't have anything to hide from each other, so we shouldn't be afraid to tell each other things. Trust is important in a marriage.
  11. MandaMooozers New Member

    My boyfriend is my best friend. So we both discuss everything.
  12. I tell my husband just about everything. There are times where I don't tell him I went somewhere because he worries about me too much as it is & I don't want him freaking out anymore than he already does. I always tell someone where I'm going though so its not like I disappear for a few hours with no one able to contact me.
  13. kristyleann Member

    I tell him everything just because I'm really talkative and that's just how I am lol....I'm sure at some point in the future there might be something I choose not to tell him (he probably does that with me now lol). As long as it doesn't directly affect the other person then I don't think you have to tell them. In fact, too much sharing could backfire...you always need to keep a little "mystery" going in a relationship, otherwise you get bored.
  14. I'm the same way, very talkative and many times i say WAY too much. My best friend is a guy and i talk way too much with him too. It's a habit that i really need to break cause many times those extra things said can be held against you.
  15. PamBeacher Member

    I used to tell him everything. Then I learned the hard way that it is NOT a good idea. He is the kind of guy that will through a mistake you made 8 years ago in your face every chance he gets. So, now I am VERY careful on what I say to him. I still tell him things and as soon as it comes out of my mouth, I am like dayum what did I just do to myself.
  16. StephRoman New Member

    I tell him everything. X) He's an extension of myself, really, so it's hard not to. I know he's not gossipy, either, so any secrety thing would be safe with him. He's always incredibly reliable which was a huge thing that attracted me to him. He's my best friend - especially since most of my female friends end up turning psycho with stupid jealousy. Which is entirely aggravating, because I was always there to help them be where I am today. Anyway -- yeah, my fiance knows everything that goes on with me and same with him telling me everything.
  17. kat744 Member

    If it is anything to do with our marriage as a couple, then he knows everything but if its girls stuff between me and my girls or friends, then I don't see any need of him knowing unless I want some advise from him. This does not mean I keep secrets from him, I just don't tell other peoples secrets to him.
  18. Danni728 New Member

    Most of the time yes, somethings I would rather not discuss with him, so I may confide in someone else.
  19. UmiNoor Member

    I don't tell my husband everything. Some things are not for his ears. He too doesn't tell me everything. And I'm fine with that. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. I think he doesn't tell me everything because he doesn't want me to worry. But we do share important things like about the children's education and such things. It's just the little things that we don't share.
  20. lynnemg New Member

    I like to think that I can confide in my husband, but I still don't tell him everything. As a matter of fact, I tell him very little simply because he doesn't seem to take any interest, especially if it has anything to do with other people aside from our immediate household. He doesn't tell me much either, even when I ask, unless he feels it is something I need to know. Really, it gets a bit frustrating when I try to share with him or get him to share with me and he just won't have any part of it.

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